Invite all ladies to bring a sleeping bag and pillow if they decide to spend the night, and also mention the pillow fight. This takes care of the drinking and driving part.
Just make sure balloons are tied to mailbox so guests can find the party location easier.
Stripper/Pillow fight area is a must! Reserve stripper to arrive at party two atleast one hour after you invite the guests to arrive. 8 pm or 9 pm are good times because it will kick the party off right. Also have many balloons and posters of good looking guys. Make a movie watching area for the late-nighters. Get movies like American Wedding, My Best Friends Wedding, Betsy's Wedding, and Grease.
Click on the partytips link and check out some great party drinks! Also plan on making that late night snack; eggs, bacon, toast, hashbrowns, pancakes, waffles, dounuts, milk, and orange juice. You can also add party favors such as; hand soaps and lotions, make-up, candy treats, and frames for polaroid pictures with the bride-to-be.
Make or buy a luau invitation at your local party/stationery store and include a flower hair comb for everyone. Tell them they must wear the comb on their bodies somewhere, and that you want them to dress luauish. Have them get creative with their skirts (grass) and tropical (coconut) tops and encourage sandles or bare feet. That will get them talking long before the party.
Tiki torches are a must. You can place these on both sides of the door and also at the end of the driveway so the guests can find the party. You can also add a fake parrot, tropical music outside, fake palm trees, paper lanterns, citronella candels and pink flamingos in the yard.
Greeting everyone at the door with a lei and a aloha is a must. Set up bamboo, flowers, candles and seashells through out the party area and bar. Make sure to use tropical colors for your tablecloths, napkins, cups, and balloons: yellow, green, hot pink, melon, orange and bright blue. Don't forget a limbo stick, bamboo will work best, and just have two people hold the ends. Reserve stripper to arrive at party two atleast one hour after you invite the guests to arrive. 8 pm or 9 pm are good times because it will kick the party off right.
The first drink should be served complete with tropical straws and cocktail umbrellas. Click on the partytips link and check out some great party drinks you can combine with a tropical setting. Don't forget the all-important coconut cups, whether plastic or made from real coconuts. You can also add small fish squirts(little rubber fish that you fill with water, squeeze and squirt) and let the guests keep their tropical cup.